Are you looking for a superhero instead of a spouse? If you're like me you sometimes struggle with feeling loved and look to the one you think should meet all those needs just in the nick of time. Have you ever expected your spouse to know when you had a bad day or understand when you were feeling cranky? There are two problems with that scenario. Our level of expectation of our spouse is a higher standard than we hold ourselves to and the one we should be looking to for fulfillment is the One and Only True God. Remember Matthew 6:33 , "Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these thing shall be added to you." All these things include your need for love, forgiveness, acceptance, patience, grace, mercy and so much more. Then we can begin to love our spouse like God intended.